Living Our Faith — Practicing forgiveness in the Year of Mercy

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This week’s topic:

One of the spiritual works of mercy encourages the forgiveness of “those who have offended us.” Offenses come in a wide variety of forms, however, with some much harder to handle than others.

St. John Paul II sits with Mehmet Ali Agca, the man who shot him in 1981, in Rome's Rebibbia prison in 1983. The pope forgave Agca. We are not only asked to forgive -- a key feature of Jesus' teaching -- but we are asked to do so willingly. (CNS photo/Arturo Mari, L'Osservatore Romano)
St. John Paul II sits with Mehmet Ali Agca, the man who shot him in 1981, in Rome’s Rebibbia prison in 1983. The pope forgave Agca. We are not only asked to forgive — a key feature of Jesus’ teaching — but we are asked to do so willingly. (CNS photo/Arturo Mari, L’Osservatore Romano)

The call to forgive offenses is not a pious platitude. Forgiveness encompasses thoughtfulness, love and a willingness to count all that is good in another person, while not refusing to set boundaries or agreeing to be hurt again.

It is hard enough to forgive someone when they have done or said something that hurts us, but even harder to do this willingly, on our own volition, without being forced.